If you are in love with a girl and are crazy about her, then doing random things that surprise her should be on your radar. These random things will give her a sweet surprise and show your love and care towards her. In a relationship, showing love and care towards your partner is of paramount importance. If you don’t, the other person starts feeling neglected and taking each-other for granted never works out for any couple. It can be one of the reasons why two people in a relationship start feeling distant from each other.
So, whether it is your girlfriend or wife or fiancée, make sure to do sweet things for her without any occasion. These random acts of romance or sweetness goes a long way, and you do not need them every day. Just on some days to show that she is on your mind, on a special occasion, you do it anyway, so why not show her that you love her no matter the day?
Not sure what you can do? Well, here are a few ideas that may sit well with you. I am pretty sure that the surprised look and the sweet smile on your partner’s face will all be worth it.
1. Help her with chores
I know that most couples divide the chores. So that none of them has to do too much on top of their job. But maybe on the weekend, if you see your partner doing something extra like doing extra laundry or cleaning the curtains, lend a hand.
Or maybe she is into a DIY project, like gardening or redecorating her closet and making shelves for it herself or anything, help her out.
She will enjoy your help and most of all the company. It is a sweet gesture, as well.
2. Buy her some sex toy or sexy lingerie
If she is into trying new things in bed or has been giving you clues about the same, why not look into it? There is no shame in trying to spruce up your sexual life. If you like naughty things in bed, try Cirilla’s strap on. There are tons of ranges, and it is perfect for all couples.
If this is maybe a bit too much or too early in your relationship, you can go for sexy lingerie or comfy PJs. Both are perfect options as women spend tons of time on them because they both resonate sexiness and comfort. So, whichever you feel, you can buy it perfectly for her.
3. Leave her notes
Sound old school? Then, this will certainly work – trust me in the age of smartphones and laptops, hand-written notes have their own importance. Also, it will be a sweet surprise for her when she finds a loving note. It can be anything; it may say how much you love her or are proud of her in her lunch bag or under her pillow.
If you wake up earlier than her, leave a note on the fridge or get her coffee with a sweet note on it. Also, if you can, leave the little post-it for her to see when you are not there for her.
It will ensure that she will remember you more, and it can be a fun ritual between you two.
4. Go for a surprise vacation
Without telling her why; ask her to pack her bag or if you can, do it yourself. Then take her away to a destination that you both always thought about going, but it never happened. Take charge here so that you can see the shining in her eyes and smiles on her lips.
The romantic getaway can help you to bond and get to know each other better. You can even learn things about each other, which you never knew before.
5. Do something adventurous
Surprise her with an adventure that she never thought she will do. It might take some convincing, but it will be exceptional for you. Depending upon where you both live, you can choose from hiking, snow sledging, bungee jumping or more.
You can also go for things that will pump your adrenaline a bit less, like spin class or salsa dance class or cooking for couples’ class. Trust me all these things can be fun and romantic and best of all, it provides you with a chance to be together.
6. Make her a playlist of all the songs that she loves
We all have a song for every mood. A go-to song or songs that can make us feel lighter and better within minutes. You can make her a playlist for every mood. One can be dance songs, other emo, and jazz or so on.
Or you can make her a mixtape (playlist) that has all her favorite songs despite the genre.
7. Watch a sunrise or sunset together
Plan an early morning hike or go for an evening picnic which allows you to watch a sunrise and sunset together. Find a beautiful and private spot where you can watch this spectacular scene that nature provides you. Make sure you carry some snacks and wine or coffee depending upon the time of the day.
Talk your heart out and take some selfies and make memories to last for a lifetime.
8. Travel with her
Buying materialistic things is never a great idea. It is better to travel instead. Make a list of destinations that you two can travel without breaking the band currently. Also, make a future list of travel that requires more fun.
Tick the places off and make memories. Do get souvenirs from each tip that can remind you both of the happy times you spend with each other.
9. Pamper her
Pampering your partner is one of the best forms of love. And how can you do this? By holding hands or massaging her is a perfect way to show your love and pamper them.
Make her feel loved and cared for, she does so much for you, and appreciating it with these small gestures are worth the time. Learn more awesome date ideas from Romantific.com. Also, if any girls are reading this, do the same for your husband or boyfriend.